Have you ever been around people that you don't feel quite comfortable with? Or you may feel drained out when your are with them for an excessive period of time, often for some unknown and inexplicable reasons even if you try to make it rational? If that is the case, then in your opinion, you may think that that person is feeding off your energy and intoxicating you.
Everything, whether as a part or whole, is about balance. And every one of us is also looking for that equilibrium whether we are aware of that or not. When a person is deficient in certain aspects energetically, he or she may have to compensate that externally from another individual in an unconscious manner. The opposite party could thus have a feeling that his or her energy is being "robbed". Another way to interprete it is that when one person become overly attached or dependent on another, they have formed a dysfunctional emotional cord.
If the above situation occurs, there are alternatives to how you can yield a more desirable outcome. The most efficient way, though may not be something that is best for soul growth, is to keep a distant with those people who are not "serving" you. Well, at least for a period of time until you are able to replenish your own chi. Another way, and a compassionate way too, is to look within yourself. Likes attract likes. We resonate with what and who is aligned with our energy, path and purpose. What we manifest is an aspect of our most powerful and heartfelt intentions for ourselves and our lives. If that is the truth and that the external world is indeed a mirror of your inner landscape, how have you attracted this "toxic" person to your life and how can you work on yourself to overcome that? How does your view on that person reflect on how you see yourself? And what does his or her qualities remind you of yourself?
Your success in making that self-transformation will allow you to have a different take on the situation, and can only make you more inclusive.
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