Blaming is easy. In fact it does not even have to be conscious or logical. As long as you can identify an external factor which contributes to a failure or mishappening, you are already saying that you no longer take ownership.
But there is a trade off. By blaming, you are taking away your own power. For when you claim not to be responsible, you are giving up the self-curiosity to look within and transform yourself. Not only are you forgoing the driver's seat but also a precious opportunity for forgiveness and reconciliation. For whatever and whoever that can appear or has shown up in our world, we must have a role to play to contribute to their appearances.
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