There are only three types of events that could take place in our lives - the good, the bad and the neutral. Such events often give rise to all sorts of emotions: joy sorrow, anger, fear... well, the usual template. And we associate our emotions with those events and interpret them based on how we perceive the world. So we typically will blame someone or ourselves one way or the other and believe that whatever that has happened is the root of all evil.
This is where the fun begins, if and only if you dare to peel off the layers and reveal the core. It is never the incident, activity, or the event itself. Instead of focusing of what has happened, try to ask yourself how you feel about it, and where does this feeling come from? What are you believing that makes me own the feeling? What assumptions do you have?
Now, have you got some clues on who the murderer is? Maybe we have been chasing after the wrong culprits ever too often.
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